HELP PLEASE ! I can not figure out how to get the flasher disconnected. It is a set up I have never seen before. I see the little electrical connector to the left of the flasher BUT, I can not figure out how to get the flasher disconnected? It seems to be in some type of holder with the male pins going into it. That is on some type of rod. It looks to be some way to release the connector off the rod but how? Please someone help me out with this. Thanks Mike